My dear friend Diane told us she was engaged to get married sometime this year, and Norris and I thought we would go - but then at the end of January, she announced the date was set for Monday, February 29th. Norris decided he would prefer to go when the weather would be more pleasant, so I went for the festivities without him.
I don't have a lot of photos of how beautiful Oregon was, even at the end of winter, but here's a shot I took out Diane's back door. I was trying to capture a bird at the feeder, but you get to see the terrain. She has dozens of beautiful Davenport Arabian horses that she often enjoys viewing in the middle ground.
But I was here for the wedding. I arrived late Thursday, and on Friday, we headed out for groceries for the weekend. Diane had rented a large house on the coast to host the small gathering for the ceremony she wanted to be simple and quiet. In this next photo, you will see the shopping cart, still being loaded.
That cart was so full, it was like pushing a large boat around, and there was barely room in the car for three people and luggage when we headed out to Lincoln City the next day. But I'm getting ahead of myself. Just for Norris, I took this photo in the parking lot at the Costco -
Of course, we have no flowering trees yet here in Western North Carolina. Nor do any of the fields around here look this green -
That was taken on the road to the beach house, still in the Willamette Valley I believe.
The next two photos were taken after we unloaded everything for the weekend and show the view from the great room at the rented house.
On Sunday, I took a stroll on the shore. The house was close to the beach, but you had to snake down a couple of hairpin turns, then descend via this staircase (I took the photo from the bottom, looking up.)
It was gray but the water and sand of course make a great show.
Some of Diane's guests struggled a little with her "simple, quiet" concept. This is what happened to the great room on Sunday while I was out for my walk.
But Diane had already decided she would use the sitting area of the master bedroom suite for the ceremony, up on the third floor. Her life-long friend Carrie had brought the flowers, but I arranged them so I have to show this photo. Carrie's mother had purchased vases and the ribbon at Goodwill.
One of Carrie's dogs was selected to be the ring bearer. Kelly was only too happy to have attention, but she needed a little help from Diane's brother James to hold still while Brad tied the rings to her decorative ribbon collar.
The groom, Ed, took a moment before the ceremony to compose himself. Carrie made his boutonniere, as well as Diane's simple rose bouquet.
This next photo showing Carrie with her mother Pam and the ring bearer illustrates why I had the job of arranging the main floral decorations. The doctor's orders for "Toes Above Nose" were not going to keep Carrie away from this celebration, but she had to spend the whole weekend in poses just like this one.
Former neighbor Brad performed the ceremony - it was short but meaningful. He has been a friend of the family for as long as Diane has lived in her house.
I was not the official photographer - Brad is a photographer of considerable merit. The gear you see in this next photo is his. The three men pictured are Diane's nephews John and Scott in the middle ground, with her brother James looking through his own viewfinder between them. Ed's lovely sister Anna is on the right side of the frame.
I didn't hang around for all the picture-taking, but started taking the flowers back downstairs where they would decorate the cake and champagne service.
I was called back up for a photo, and before I got in on mine, I got this shot of the happy couple and Anna -- which I thought was the best I took with my inadequate cell-phone camera.
I loved this joyful expression on Diane's face when she came downstairs afterwards. I was very happy for her, too!
One more photo - the newlyweds preparing to slice the cake. They had both shed their more formal wear in favor of comfort and we all spent a quiet evening together in the house.
The whole weekend was beautiful and (mostly) relaxing, with much love and friendship shared among Diane and Ed's guests. Maybe they'll do this again on their first anniversary - which happens four years from now.